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Long-Distance Relationship Budget Calculator

This calculator shows what visiting your partner costs over a year. Enter how often you visit, what the trip costs and how long you stay, and see your annual and monthly total.

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How to use it

  1. Enter visits per year.
  2. Enter the round-trip travel cost per visit.
  3. Enter nights per visit, lodging per night (0 if you stay together) and daily spending.
  4. Read the yearly and monthly total.

How it works

The formula is visits × (round-trip travel + nights × (lodging per night + daily spending)). Use one currency for every field. Calls, gifts and visa costs are not included.

Tips

  • Book flights early and avoid peak weeks.
  • Take turns travelling, or meet halfway for variety.
  • Set a “close the distance” date so the budget has an end point.

Questions about this tool

Which currency should I use?

Any. Enter every amount in the same currency and the total will be in that currency.

What if we stay together?

Set lodging per night to 0.

Does it include visa costs?

No. Use the visa cost calculator for that.

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